Saturday, June 14, 2014

C is for Conversation


I count journalists, chefs, doctors, philanthropists, architects and teachers as friends, and  last night I attended a dinner party that reminded me how lucky I am to know such interesting people!  Over a wonderful dinner of crab cakes, spicy slaw and a nice bottle of Pinot Noir, with Fleetwood Mac's Rumours playing in the background, the conversation went in a thousand different directions.  We debated swing dancing, Winston Churchill, vegetarianism, canoeing, the resurgence of beer in a can, the merits of Twitter, the upcoming city elections, and spotting famous people in odd places. 

Dinner parties are also a time to share the latest books we've read, the movies that made us cry, and the new restaurants we've tried.   In the 1990's, the only restaurant downtown was The Old Spaghetti Factory, which miraculously is still in business.  (Although, really, is it ever a good idea to put factory into the name of a restaurant?)  Now, Nashville has become quite the foodie town, and while we love our new reputation we bemoan how hard it is to get a reservation.  We used to be able to pull a group together on Wednesday and make a reservation for Saturday night anywhere in town - now we often need a month's notice!  Perhaps sentimentality just comes with middle age, but we reminisced about the Nashville of old with great fondness.  Does anyone else remember the Italian Street Fair, the Summer Lights Festival or Faison's?  How about the IHOP near Vanderbilt where one of the waiters dressed up like Elvis?  We're making plans to see a Sounds baseball game since it is the last summer they will be playing in Greer Stadium. 

As I was driving home, I couldn't stop smiling thinking about the friends I have made since moving here in 1990.  We've changed, just as our city has, and I like to think we're all (mostly) the better for it.  Our conversations overall have become deeper, more thoughtful, but are still laced with humor and irreverence. And thankfully, I don't think we will ever run out of topics to talk about.

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